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FairShare: Mental Load

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FairShare: Mental Load

by Rene Fandida

v3.1.1 40 MB 4+

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Description

FairShare — The mental load OS for modern households

You're not crazy. You're carrying a lot. FairShare helps you split the invisible work, so your partner owns whole areas of household life — not just "helps" when asked.

Inspired by Eve Rodsky's Fair Play method, FairShare replaces chore charts with over 100 cards. Each card is full ownership: Conceive, Plan, Execute. No more delegating. No more reminding. No more mental load running your life.

WHY FAIRSHARE IS DIFFERENT

• Card-based, not task-based — own the whole domain, not one-off tasks
• AI Brain Dump — say what's on your mind; we turn it into cards
• Noticing Score — the only app that measures who *notices* what needs doing, not just who does it
• Visualizer heat map — see the invisible load made visible
• Built for every household — two-parent, same-sex, single, blended, roommates
• Weekly check-ins — renegotiate with kindness, not blow-ups
• Minimum Standard of Care — no more "but you didn't tell me how"

KEY FEATURES

AI mental load interceptor
Speak or type what's running through your head. The AI turns it into clean cards across Home, Kids, Out, Wild, and Unicorn — and suggests who should own each one.

100+ card deck
Every domain covered. Filtered to your household shape during onboarding, so you only see what's relevant to your life.

Invisible load visualizer
Dashboard heat map of who holds what. Track imbalance and watch it shift over time.

Noticing Score
The signature number: how much of the household's noticing — the invisible "I'll remember it" work — lands on you. Tap a card to rebalance, then share your Report Card to start the conversation.

Weekly Re-deal About 15 minutes a week.
Structured, calm prompts to renegotiate cards and update Minimum Standards of Care without the resentment loop.

The Unicorn card
Your hobbies, friendships, dreams. Protect your own bandwidth — it's a card too.

Built for all households
Two-parent, same-sex, single-parent + co-parent, blended, roommates, solo, multigenerational.

Calendar sync (FairShare+)
Two-way iOS Calendar, MSC reminders, fewer dropped balls.

Facilitator mode (FairShare+)
Invite a certified Fair Play coach for a session with read-only board access.

SUBSCRIPTION

FairShare Free — up to 20 cards, 5 Brain Dumps per month, one weekly check-in, basic visualizer.

FairShare+ unlocks unlimited cards, unlimited AI Brain Dumps, full visualizer, MSC library, calendar sync, partner-share mode, facilitator invite, and priority support. 7-day free trial. One subscription covers your whole household.

Pricing shown in app. Subscriptions auto-renew unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Manage or cancel anytime in Settings.

PRIVACY & CARE

Your data is yours. Encrypted at rest. We don't sell your data or train AI models on your conversations. GDPR- and CCPA-aligned. Export or delete your data anytime.

ABOUT CULI

FairShare is made by culi — a small studio building apps that make midlife lighter. culi.app

Questions: help@culi.app
Privacy Policy: https://culi.app/apps/fairshare/privacy-policy
Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

Welcome to a lighter load.

What's new (v3.1.1)

A little thanks goes a long way.

• Say thanks — when your partner finishes a card, one tap sends them a little appreciation. It's waiting on their home screen the next time they open the app
• New home-screen widget: today's cards, your balance, and what your partner finished — at a glance, without opening the app
• Completions now sync: when one of you finishes a card, the other's app knows
• "Paired but not syncing", fixed for good: if your app was quietly attached to the wrong household (an old pairing bug), it now finds the right one on launch and reconnects itself — cards, counts and your partner's changes flow again
• FairShare now tells you when a new version is out, so you're both always on the latest fixes

Thanks for sharing the load with us. Questions? help@culi.app